{"id":8970,"date":"2020-09-02T07:00:40","date_gmt":"2020-09-02T06:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/?p=8970"},"modified":"2020-07-30T11:27:55","modified_gmt":"2020-07-30T10:27:55","slug":"tipping-point","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/thoughts-from-the-cvm-team\/tipping-point\/","title":{"rendered":"Tipping Point"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A bloke in a high viz jacket was checking the contents of car boots, &#8220;What have you got in the car, sir?&#8221;, he said. I felt the anxiety level increase. &#8220;Could you open the boot please&#8221;. The drivers behind me looked at me suspiciously. Perhaps because my car had blackened out rear windows, he was thinking that I might be carrying drugs or something. He made a thorough examination of the contents and then allowed me to enter the local tip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I turned up at the local tip again recently and was greeted by a bloke on the gate who said &#8220;Sorry pal, the refuse tip is shut for twenty minutes because everything\u2019s being compacted&#8221;. Compacted? I can tell you a thing or two about being compacted mate. Life has a way of squeezing the life out of you sometimes!&#8230; is the thought that raced through my mind, but thankfully not from my mouth. As I made the twenty minute journey to another tip, I moaned about box ticking jobsworths and the inconvenience of it all. In hindsight, it would have made more sense to wait patiently but I was nearing that tipping point when frustration turns to exasperation and you blurt out something you later regret. In the grand scheme of things it was a minor inconvenience. But it made me think about how some people have to put up with a lot of inconvenience in their world and sooner or later reach a tipping point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>James, a leader in the early church says this in his letter in the New Testament: &#8220;My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry&#8221;. (James 1 v 19)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what\u2019s your tipping point? What makes you feel compacted and squashed sometimes? 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