{"id":8776,"date":"2020-03-10T07:00:08","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T07:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/?p=8776"},"modified":"2021-03-03T13:49:17","modified_gmt":"2021-03-03T13:49:17","slug":"what-will-you-give-up-for-lent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/50plus\/what-will-you-give-up-for-lent\/","title":{"rendered":"What are you giving up for Lent?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When I was young in the faith, I was led to believe that Lent is a time when we are expected to give something up.&nbsp;&nbsp;Some of my Christian friends would proudly announce they were \u201cfasting for lent\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I remember actually bragging about the fact that I once managed to give up eating crisps for 40 days.&nbsp;&nbsp;Another year it was chocolate.&nbsp;&nbsp;Others were going without meals whilst I could only manage a snack food; woe was me!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I felt that it was important to show God I could actually refrain from at least something for a period of time.&nbsp;&nbsp;I hoped my effort would please Him and that maybe in return He might do a few favours for me when I prayed (!)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If I remember rightly (and I probably don\u2019t), I\u2019m sure I even gave up alcohol one lent. I know what you\u2019re thinking, \u201cWow! 40 days &#8211; Are you serious?\u201d Well, yes, I am and I have to be honest, I thought that deserved a gold medal!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today, if I can give up alcohol for two consecutive days I feel quite pleased with myself. You see I am rather partial to God\u2019s awesome creation when it comes to water, hops, barley and yeast; after all, these are God\u2019s beautiful natural products.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anyway, I have been a Christian for about 50 years and to be honest it only really dawned on me yesterday while I was reading my daily devotional that actually Lent is not so much about giving&nbsp;<strong><em>something<\/em><\/strong>&nbsp;up, as it is about giving up&nbsp;<strong><em>everything<\/em><\/strong>&nbsp;that is not in keeping with God\u2019s will for our lives.&nbsp;&nbsp;Or to put it another way, giving up&nbsp;<em>a lifestyle that is contrary to God\u2019s will<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a word, it\u2019s about repentance \u2013 turning away from our fleshly desires, and turning back to God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the Bible, Paul (who wrote two thirds of the New Testament remember) talks about \u2018Crucifying the flesh\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most people I know don\u2019t like the word \u2018repentance\u2019 and many of today\u2019s modern progressive liberal preachers (wolves in Sheep\u2019s clothing, I call them) never talk about it at all, even though the first thing Jesus preached when He began His earthly ministry was \u201cRepent\u2026\u201d \u2013 See Matthew 4:12-17.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In order to discover God\u2019s will for our lives we need to be immersed in the Word of God (the Holy Bible).&nbsp;&nbsp;For conservative, orthodox Christians, the Bible is absolute truth.&nbsp;&nbsp;If we rarely or never read our Bibles, or if we have not been convicted by God as to the truth of His Word, then we will very likely end up doing ungodly things to help us cope with all the stresses and painful events of life &#8211; ungodly things like turning to booze, drugs, gambling, porn, and other forms of sexual immorality.&nbsp;&nbsp;What we need to do instead, is turn back to the only One who can meet our every need.&nbsp;&nbsp;If we make an idol of fleshly desires then those things can quickly become addictive, and when that happens, the road back to God becomes a very difficult one to navigate without help from trustworthy Godly brothers in Christ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Throughout the Old Testament, over hundreds of years, God sent prophet after prophet to call the people of God to repent \u2013 to turn back to Him.&nbsp;&nbsp;That very fact means God is very patient.&nbsp;&nbsp;It doesn\u2019t matter what you have done in the past that you have since realised is wrong.&nbsp;&nbsp;It matters not to God what you might be caught up in now.&nbsp;&nbsp;God wants to set you free.&nbsp;&nbsp;If you are doing, saying or thinking things that are wrong, tell Him today that you want to turn back to Him and His ways.&nbsp;&nbsp;Ask Him to help you.&nbsp;&nbsp;His hands are outstretched, willing you to turn back to Him.&nbsp;&nbsp;This current period of Lent is as good a time as any to commit your life again to Him.&nbsp;&nbsp;You won\u2019t regret it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you need to know what the Bible has to say to encourage you, then why not take a look at God\u2019s Holy Word.&nbsp;&nbsp;If you aren\u2019t sure where to look in that Great Book then help is at hand!&nbsp;&nbsp;God asked me to do the hard work of putting lots of relevant Scriptures into an easy-to-read book, just for men like you.&nbsp;&nbsp;It\u2019s called \u2018The Christian Book for Men \u2013&nbsp;<em>Biblical Solutions to the Battles Facing Men\u2019<\/em>&nbsp;it even has a Foreword from CVM!&nbsp;&nbsp;Take a look at my website to see if it\u2019s for you\u2026&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.thechristianbookformen.com\/\">www.thechristianbookformen.com<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you can\u2019t afford to buy it, go to the contact page on the website and email me.&nbsp;&nbsp;I\u2019ll send you your own free copy!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>God bless you this Lent, men of God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Photo by&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@jontyson?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Jon Tyson<\/a>&nbsp;on&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/s\/photos\/lent?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"linkwithin_hook\" id=\"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/50plus\/what-will-you-give-up-for-lent\/\"><\/div><script>\n<!-- \/\/LinkWithinCodeStart\nvar linkwithin_site_id = 897245;\nvar linkwithin_div_class = \"linkwithin_hook\";\n\/\/LinkWithinCodeEnd -->\n<\/script>\n<script src=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/widget.js\"><\/script>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/\"><img src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.linkwithin.com\/pixel.png?w=750\" alt=\"Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...\" style=\"border: 0\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I was young in the faith, I was led to believe that Lent is a time when we are expected to give something up.&nbsp;&nbsp;Some of my Christian friends would proudly announce they were \u201cfasting for lent\u201d. 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