{"id":8721,"date":"2020-01-25T09:00:40","date_gmt":"2020-01-25T09:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/?p=8721"},"modified":"2020-01-25T08:48:04","modified_gmt":"2020-01-25T08:48:04","slug":"what-are-you-aiming-at-this-year","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/thoughts-from-the-cvm-team\/what-are-you-aiming-at-this-year\/","title":{"rendered":"What are you aiming at this year?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Especially for our Chinese brothers, here is Nathan&#8217;s New Year blog that should have published on the 1st January. \u65b0\u5e74\u5feb\u4e50<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A quick search on the internet reveals that only about 8% of people who make New Year\u2019s resolutions actually manage to keep them and hit their goals. Now, we know that after about 6 weeks a new routine or habit gets easier because your mind and body responds positively to it, and adapt it as a new pattern for your life. Helpful, that!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, my question to you at the start of this year is, what are you going to go after? What are you aiming at this year?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For me, I am going big, I want to make sure I am fully alive. Sounds like an odd thing to say, because I&nbsp;<em>am<\/em>fully alive, heart beating and breathing properly.&nbsp; Biologically, I am fully alive but, like so many men, it is easy to live a life of quiet desperation. We get lost in past failures, disappointments, the choices that turned sour in our hands or just a grinding sense of \u2018What if?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I heard it said recently that \u2018If you wake up tomorrow for breakfast, know that about a quarter of million people didn\u2019t.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Death isn\u2019t the focus of this article to kick start your year on a high, but it is essential in setting and calibrating our lives. Let me explain. I have this stupidly expensive aftershave, and for a while I kept it on the shelf, a special occasion scent. Then I had this moment: \u2018Isn\u2019t every day a special occasion? I am alive!\u2019 I have the most amazing gift given to me right now, I am alive. So, get that spray on and enjoy it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tomorrow\u2019s breakfast might go cold, and you may not see it. Knowing that has to shape how we live and act right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a Christian, this reality impacts me. I have made a choice to trust Jesus, to pray and read my Bible. I have made a choice to follow Jesus\u2019 teaching, His example and the narrow path He calls us onto. It isn\u2019t easy, but I am on that path because the Bible is full of moments, lives and men who really found what it meant to be fully alive. I want some of that in my life, not some dry and dusty religion that fails to grip my heart and life, but an active, passion-filled life, trusting the King.<\/p>\n<div class=\"linkwithin_hook\" id=\"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/thoughts-from-the-cvm-team\/what-are-you-aiming-at-this-year\/\"><\/div><script>\n<!-- \/\/LinkWithinCodeStart\nvar linkwithin_site_id = 897245;\nvar linkwithin_div_class = \"linkwithin_hook\";\n\/\/LinkWithinCodeEnd -->\n<\/script>\n<script src=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/widget.js\"><\/script>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/\"><img src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.linkwithin.com\/pixel.png?w=750\" alt=\"Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...\" style=\"border: 0\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Especially for our Chinese brothers, here is Nathan&#8217;s New Year blog that should have published on the 1st January. \u65b0\u5e74\u5feb\u4e50 A quick search on the internet reveals that only about 8% of people who make New Year\u2019s resolutions actually manage to keep them and hit their goals. 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