{"id":5848,"date":"2015-02-19T07:46:23","date_gmt":"2015-02-19T07:46:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/?p=5848"},"modified":"2016-01-07T10:08:48","modified_gmt":"2016-01-07T10:08:48","slug":"lessons-from-backgammon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/50plus\/lessons-from-backgammon\/","title":{"rendered":"Lessons from Backgammon"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I went on a mission grip to Turkey a few years ago where I noticed many of the men sitting playing backgammon. I noticed similar trends in other countries on previous travels and had always wondered how to play the game. When I got back to the UK I decided I was going to learn, so I downloaded the game to my iPhone and taught myself to play.<\/p>\n<p>I like the fact that it\u2019s a game of both chance and skill and that the result is fairly unpredictable. Often times I think I\u2019m going to win only to get beaten right at the end. Other times I\u2019m convinced that the way things are going I\u2019m going to lose and debate with myself whether to forfeit the game only to win before I concluded the argument.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t try to teach you the rules and strategies here but the lessons learned are worth airing. You see, I see a parallel to life. Getting a good or a bad start in life doesn\u2019t necessarily dictate the way your life will end up. Sure the circumstances of our birth and early life have an impact on the rest of our lives \u2013 more usually on our material circumstances. But perseverance, hard work and the choices we make affect us much more.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d like to end up being rich and happy but if I had a choice between the two I\u2019d choose happiness. Now that I\u2019m older I can see clearly that it isn\u2019t the house you live in, the car you drive or the holidays you take that make for happiness. I know plenty of discontent people who score highly on these stakes. What really counts is contentment, relationships and integrity.<\/p>\n<p>The way we live, the choices we make and the ability to persevere through the difficult times are things that make us who we are. It applies to the spiritual realm too. There are loads of verses about this in the Bible. Here\u2019s just one &#8211; \u201c<em>We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.<\/em>\u201d<strong>\u00a0Romans 5:3-5<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When I feel like giving up, running away or just opting out, I remember my games of backgammon.<\/p>\n<p>Every blessing<br \/>\nMarten Holmes<br \/>\nNational Director,\u00a0<a href=\"www.oacbg.org.uk\">OAC Ministries<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"linkwithin_hook\" id=\"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/50plus\/lessons-from-backgammon\/\"><\/div><script>\n<!-- \/\/LinkWithinCodeStart\nvar linkwithin_site_id = 897245;\nvar linkwithin_div_class = \"linkwithin_hook\";\n\/\/LinkWithinCodeEnd -->\n<\/script>\n<script src=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/widget.js\"><\/script>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/\"><img src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.linkwithin.com\/pixel.png?w=750\" alt=\"Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...\" style=\"border: 0\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I went on a mission grip to Turkey a few years ago where I noticed many of the men sitting playing backgammon. 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