{"id":4131,"date":"2013-05-15T08:00:01","date_gmt":"2013-05-15T08:00:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/?p=4131"},"modified":"2014-09-23T11:24:55","modified_gmt":"2014-09-23T11:24:55","slug":"potty-training","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/the-welford\/potty-training\/","title":{"rendered":"Potty Training"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Did you know that in this day and age you can buy a toilet seat that closes slowly so it doesn\u2019t slam down? That\u2019s right! Instead of risking a toilet seat slam, as it\u2019s known in the trade, you can release the seat at it\u2019s apex, safe in the knowledge that 5-10 seconds later it will gently touch down without a sound. I know because I own one of these marvels of the modern world. Or I did until it broke. That\u2019s right something has happened and now my slow close toilet lid is no more than a common gravity obeying lid.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is I always forget that it\u2019s broken until the very second I have let it go, and as it loudly crashes into the seat I have a moment of frustration at my ever decreasing capacity to remember important things like this. This unique phenomenon doesn\u2019t affect me anywhere else, I am not a habitual toilet seat slammer. I generally assume that other people aren\u2019t as up to date in loo seat technology as I am and place their seats gently down. But my seat was designed to be dropped! It was drop proof! I had become so used to it, that now it is hard to unlearn what I had learnt! It is hard to form a new habit.<\/p>\n<p>As it is with my toilet so it is in life. Forming habits is hard, and is it me or are good habits much harder to form than bad ones? And although I may not have a noisy toilet seat to remind me of every time I fail to stick to a good habit, I do have my backstabbing mind to point out my every fault and failure. Surely there\u2019s a better way? A way to form good habits quickly and effectively?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Matthew 11:29-30 \u2018Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.\u2019<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div class=\"linkwithin_hook\" id=\"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/the-welford\/potty-training\/\"><\/div><script>\n<!-- \/\/LinkWithinCodeStart\nvar linkwithin_site_id = 897245;\nvar linkwithin_div_class = \"linkwithin_hook\";\n\/\/LinkWithinCodeEnd -->\n<\/script>\n<script src=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/widget.js\"><\/script>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/\"><img src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.linkwithin.com\/pixel.png?w=750\" alt=\"Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...\" style=\"border: 0\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you know that in this day and age you can buy a toilet seat that closes slowly so it doesn\u2019t slam down? 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Instead of risking a toilet seat slam, as it\u2019s known in the trade, you can release the seat at it\u2019s apex, safe in the knowledge that 5-10 seconds later it [&hellip;]<\/p>\n<script>\n<!-- \/\/LinkWithinCodeStart\nvar linkwithin_site_id = 897245;\nvar linkwithin_div_class = \"linkwithin_hook\";\n\/\/LinkWithinCodeEnd -->\n<\/script>\n<script src=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/widget.js\"><\/script>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/\"><img src=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/pixel.png\" alt=\"Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...\" style=\"border: 0\" \/><\/a>","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[312],"tags":[649,648,647],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7PoLK-14D","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":8320,"url":"https:\/\/www.cvm.org.uk\/blog\/50plus\/waiting-at-the-airport\/","url_meta":{"origin":4131,"position":0},"title":"Waiting at the airport.","date":"6 February 2019","format":false,"excerpt":"I was asked recently, \u201cDo you believe in heaven?\u201d As you walk through the airport terminal signs, images, smells and crowds of people carrying their luggage bombard the senses. 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