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Just moments after describing the homeless man as “less valuable than his dog” the couple were chatting about how amazing he was to ensure the safety of his pet before himself. I was stunned to hear the compliment from the pair in front of me so quickly after they accused him of “ruining his own life”. I glanced back at the man with no permanent address and ironically, he was laughing as his dog who sunbathed in the Preston light, like the men in the beer garden behind them. I laughed as well.

As the Muslim lady walked passed the outdoor seating area of the refurbished bar, my friend Dave and I were left horrified as an English lager lout shouted: “Oi take your mask off!”.

I turned 26 on Tuesday and read through the massively encouraging cards which had been sent from Wales, York and Preston.

Looking back on this week I can safely say that the power of the human tongue is quite simply phenomenal. The power to change a life with words is also highlighted throughout the teachings of the word of God. However, it’s not just the things we say, be they good or bad, but often in my life and the lives of my friends, it’s the things we do not say.

Was it more or less painful for the Muslim lady to hear the racist comment or the silence of the beer garden drinkers after it was shouted? I said nothing as that arrogant yob hurled his abuse at an easy living target who dressed differently.

The frown I wore across my aging face when the couple insulted the homeless guy is as pathetic as their words. If I don’t start speaking up for those who are being silenced, then what good are my frowns, my thoughts or my blogs? What is the point in me following Jesus, the Messiah who stuck up for those outcast by an arrogant society, if I refuse to do the same?

In the book of James it reads: “With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be.”

My birthday wish is to man up and speak up this year. Brothers, please pray for this.

Peace.

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  • http://popthycollar.blogspot.com Pop Thy Collar

    Well said and happy birthday.

    Racism makes an anger burn within me. So much so I have to be careful not to judge or retaliate against the racist, who is normally so because of his own upbringing and role models.

    I have yet to think of a half decent “loving putdown”!

  • Alex Willmott

    Yeah I know what you mean mate. It’s a weird one isn’t it? Jesus clearly despised racism, but also hated hypocrisy. So for me to judge the racist, would be to claim I am not a hyprocrite. Not that I harbour racist beliefs (sporting events excluded) but I do judge people on other levels. Ricky Gervais said something great the other day. “The bones and skeletons underneath the skin, are almost identical to the next guy. It makes racism so illogical”. Maybe a good put down would be “Oi, fella, your bones are the same colour as theirs”.

  • http://nwelford.wordpress.com/ Nick Welford

    Well observed – ignorance can be as destructive as arrogance. And it’s not just these extreme examples, but also in the smaller everyday things where I choose silence over speaking up. I’ll stand up and speak up with you mate.

  • Alex Willmott

    It’s the small things which count the most Nick, I agree. So many of Jesus miracles were beautifully subtle.

  • Marthinus

    Rob Bell said in his book Sex God:”This is always about that…” The remark from the guy hurling insults at the Muslim lady probably comes from a heart that is torn by life’s violence and a massive void in his heart due to the absence of God. God had compassion for the idiots and saw beyond their stupid remarks and into their real situation.

    So yes, you could have stood up and said something to the guy that will let him feel bad about what he did, what would be awesome is if you could have imparted Jesus on that guy with a loving caring approach by seeing that “this is actually about that”. (that would have been much more difficult though….) –> Do I make any sense?

    As a last statement: As a guy, you normally want to defend your own and/or the defenseless (there is a place in the world for that!!!!) but moving one step up, I think you will have a bigger impact when you try to impart Jesus on the wrongdoer…

    Anyway, great job Alex!
    Marthinus (Swaff-camp)

  • Alex Willmott

    Marthinus, I have heard great things about you. You are very right in what you say and thank you for your comment. There is a thin line between a submissive response to evil and standing up against it. I do not know which is more Christ-like but I do that when I stay quiet, it is not in line with Jesus’ teaching. I would love to hear more of your thoughts on this and anything else which you are thinking about these days. Swaff has my email (I can’t publish it here).
    Have a good weekend.
    Alex Willmott

  • Marthinus

    Lekker boet, will get your email from the Swaffstickle…lekker weekend!